Before actually walking the Camino,
some people have interesting ideas
about living life as a pilgrim.
One of the most interesting was a woman
who told me she planned
on introducing herself
on introducing herself
to the Basque witches when she arrived
and fully expected to be invited
to midnight rituals in secret caves
along the Way.
along the Way.
I'm pretty sure that didn't pan out for her
- the "real" Basque witches
most likely survive
most likely survive
the same way their ancestors did,
by NOT opening their arms to strangers.
This woman's fantasy was so upset by reality
that she returned to the United States
after only several days on the Camino.
Although there are as many different ways
to experience The Way as there are pilgrims,
I thought it might be helpful to post
about my own experience
and share with you a typical day
on the Camino for me.
on the Camino for me.
Your days can be good ones or bad ones,
depending on YOUR attitude,
and the first piece of advice I'll give you is
"Chill Out!"
This is going to be an experience
unlike any other.
unlike any other.
Learn to bend like a sapling in a storm
and you will survive.
Have unrealistic expectations,
and you will survive.
Have unrealistic expectations,
and you will snap.
The Camino can be wonderful
and it can be terrible.
and it can be terrible.
The more open minded and flexible you are,
the less you are likely to suffer.
You soon discover that some circumstances
are not under your control.
I would say that you
are not the center of the Universe,
are not the center of the Universe,
but that isn't exactly true.
You ARE the center of YOUR universe
and you can CHOOSE
how you respond to challenges
how you respond to challenges
on the road.
Difficult situations can become nightmares
or they can become
wonderful life-changing lessons.
wonderful life-changing lessons.
It all depends on your response;
in that you always have a choice.
We have to begin somewhere,
so let's begin at about 5 a.m.
You have slept in a very crowded albergue.
It was difficult to fall sleep
because the place is packed
and the air is thick and stuffy.
About midnight,
you opened the window
you opened the window
beside your bunk bed
to get some fresh air,
to get some fresh air,
but the person in the top bunk
promptly closed it.
promptly closed it.
You quietly opened it again,
only to have her sit up,
give a HUFF,
and slam it closed!
You decide not to argue,
and eventually fall asleep among
the snoring, farting,
and whispering peregrinos.
and whispering peregrinos.
And now, in the darkest dark,
what should be
the quietest quiet of the morning,
the quietest quiet of the morning,
you are rudely awakened
by the rustling of those
by the rustling of those
horrid plastic grocery sacks!
Squinting your eyes open,
you try to see
where the noise is coming from
where the noise is coming from
and you're suddenly blinded
by someone's headlamp -
by someone's headlamp -
You wonder
what in the world is happening,
then you realize,
what in the world is happening,
then you realize,
it is morning
and several pilgrims
and several pilgrims
are joining in the daily
"race for a bed!"
"race for a bed!"
Some folks find it impossible
to leave
to leave
their Type A personalities
at home!
at home!
Why can't they let their guard down
and trust the Camino to provide?
They live in fear -
"Where will I sleep?
What if there are no beds at the next place?"
To assure themselves,
they awaken at god-awful early times
and roust everyone else
with their readyings.
with their readyings.
You turn over,
put your pillow over your head,
put your pillow over your head,
adjust your earplugs,
and do your best to get
another 2 hours of precious sleep.
another 2 hours of precious sleep.
But the rustling bags,
the loud whispering,
the loud whispering,
the clicking of poles on the floor
continues,
continues,
and after about an hour,
you give up
along with almost everyone else
along with almost everyone else
and join the crowd
as they hurry to get on the road.
as they hurry to get on the road.
If you are lucky,
you have stayed in a place
that refuses
that refuses
to unlock the doors until 7 am.
They do exist,
but they are few and far between.
but they are few and far between.
Last night, after your shower,
you put on today's walking clothes.
You slept in them,
and so this morning
you only have to stuff
you only have to stuff
your sleeping bag
into your pack to be ready.
into your pack to be ready.
A quick look around
to be sure you aren't leaving anything
to be sure you aren't leaving anything
and you are out the door.
There was no breakfast here today.
But you remember
you have some "Marias"
in your backpack.
There is a fig tree in the yard with a sign
"Gratis"
and so you pick two
and enjoy a small breakfast of
figs and cookies.
But you remember
you have some "Marias"
in your backpack.
There is a fig tree in the yard with a sign
"Gratis"
and so you pick two
and enjoy a small breakfast of
figs and cookies.
Sometimes the albergue
will offer you breakfast.
will offer you breakfast.
This usually consists of bread
donated by a local bakery,
packets of butter and jam,
and coffee.
and coffee.
Sometimes there will be cereal or fruit,
but not often.
but not often.
Spanish bread is lovely.
Baked fresh each day,
it contains no preservatives,
it contains no preservatives,
so it may be a bit tough if old.
But it's tasty
and the only thing
you're likely to get to eat
and the only thing
you're likely to get to eat
for a few hours,
so you accept it
so you accept it
and express your thanks
to the hospitalero
to the hospitalero
and the Camino,
remembering,
remembering,
"A Pilgrim Is Grateful."
You step out into the dawn
and begin to walk.
and begin to walk.
One foot in front of the other...
You may walk alone
or you may begin in a group.
The people in the group will come and go
as the day progresses.
You may walk fast or slow,
and as others pass you,
they will greet you with "Buen Camino!"
You quickly learn this phrase
and begin to offer it
and begin to offer it
to others you meet along the road.
You are reminded what it's like
to have people look at you
when they speak to you.
when they speak to you.
It's refreshing to see people
interacting face to face
instead of online.
interacting face to face
instead of online.
This human connection
touches you
touches you
and heals you
in ways you can't explain.
in ways you can't explain.
This morning's quest is to find a bar
where you can have
a "real" cup of coffee
a "real" cup of coffee
or hot chocolate or zumo (juice).
It's usually found
within an hour or two
within an hour or two
of leaving the albergue.
You began this morning
wearing layers against the cold.
wearing layers against the cold.
After about 1/2 hour of walking,
no matter the weather,
you find yourself peeling layers off.
The morning air is fresh and clean.
You can smell the hay and the cows.
The sun rises higher
and you begin to sweat.
and you begin to sweat.
You listen to the birds
and the quiet of the countryside.
and the quiet of the countryside.
You feel alive
for the first time in a long time.
for the first time in a long time.
You continue to walk...
one foot in front of the other...
alone for a couple of kilometers.
Then a pilgrim passes you.
Another steps up beside you
and walks with you for a while,
and walks with you for a while,
then turns off to rest
under the shade of an oak tree.
under the shade of an oak tree.
One foot in front of the other...
over a bridge...
through vineyards...
along the banks of a canal.
You wonder at the wildlife.
You see nesting birds, butterflies, grasshoppers, frogs.
You walk a long time
on a hot, dusty track.
on a hot, dusty track.
A car passes you.
The person inside honks and waves.
"Buen Camino!" they shout!
You wave back,
happy to be acknowledged.
happy to be acknowledged.
One foot in front of the other...
onto some old roman road.
Walls on each side of you
make the path shady.
make the path shady.
Ivy clings to giant ancient trees.
You pass a bici-grino fixing a tire.
"Buen Camino!"
Your stomach growls -
it must be lunch time.
it must be lunch time.
You walk around a bend
and there is a bar!
It is OPEN!
The tables and chairs outside
are filled with hungry pilgrims.
Backpacks and walking sticks
are leaned against the building.
are leaned against the building.
People are going in and out.
Casa Morgade after Sarria is a great place to stop and rest. |
You take off your pack
and leave it outside.
and leave it outside.
The first time or two you did this,
it worried you,
it worried you,
but you now realize
that nobody wants your pack
that nobody wants your pack
and it's o.k. to leave it for a few minutes.
The bar owner doesn't want it inside
because too many pilgrims
don't pay attention.
don't pay attention.
They turn around
and knock things off counters
and knock things off counters
with their big packs.
They also carry bedbugs and dirt
into the establishment.
into the establishment.
It's understandable
that the packs and walking sticks
that the packs and walking sticks
are required to be left outdoors.
You get into line and order your coffee.
You use Spanish to order.
It's becoming more and more comfortable every day to speak Spanish.
The people here do not speak English.
The people here do not speak English.
A frustrated American speaks his order
in S-L-O-W, LOUD English.
The bartender scowls
and shakes his head.
and shakes his head.
He doesn't understand.
Speaking loud slow English
won't get you far
won't get you far
in this country,
but an honest attempt
to speak the national language will.
to speak the national language will.
You step up
and help the pilgrim order his food.
and help the pilgrim order his food.
He does not thank you.
You silently bless him anyway.
While you're at it,
you silently bless the bar owner,
you silently bless the bar owner,
who was happy to serve you
but cranky with the other pilgrim.
It doesn't matter.
You choose to smile and be grateful
for the food and drink and service.
You see a stack of bocadillos
on the counter
on the counter
and you order one
for second breakfast.
for second breakfast.
You laugh at the thought
of second breakfast,
of second breakfast,
but the excessive walking
makes you more hungry
makes you more hungry
than when you're at home.
You find a place to sit
and enjoy your coffee
and enjoy your coffee
and sandwich.
The tables are full,
so you sit outdoors on the ground
leaning against the building.
It matters not where you sit;
the food and steaming coffee
lifts your spirits!
lifts your spirits!
You ask the other peregrinos;
"Where did you begin today?
How far will you go?"
You recognize someone you met
2 weeks ago
in another town.
"Hey! How ARE you!?
So nice to see you again!"
You hug like long lost friends!
Photo from Pilgrim Roads |
After you eat and drink,
you pick up your pack
and once again,
and once again,
you walk.
One foot in front of the other...
walking...
walking...
for another few hours.
You stop at a tienda in the village
and buy food.
and buy food.
Tuna, bread, tomatoes,
and and apple.
and and apple.
You see the local fountain
and stop to fill your water bottles
with cold spring water.
"The water in Spain
is much cleaner than at home,"
is much cleaner than at home,"
you think to yourself.
You walk again...
one foot in front of the other...
up and hill and down,
athrough herd of sheep.
The shepherd's dogs eyeball you,
wondering if you're a threat.
You hold your walking stick tighter.
They decide
you are not bothering them,
you are not bothering them,
and trot off into the dusty wake
of 100 bawling sheep.
of 100 bawling sheep.
You turn your face to the sun.
It feels so good, so warm.
You come into another small village.
The streets are narrow and pristine.
You spot a house
with a bright blue door.
with a bright blue door.
There are clean clothes
hanging from the upper windows,
hanging from the upper windows,
flapping like flags in the wind.
The lower windows are filled
with geranium planted pots;
with geranium planted pots;
a study in reds, hot pinks, and greens.
What wonderful houses
the Spanish live in!
the Spanish live in!
Watercolor by Joy Laking |
You walk out of this village
and into the countryside.
and into the countryside.
There are sunflower fields
on each side of the dirt path.
on each side of the dirt path.
You are curious
about the ancient irrigation systems.
Who made these?
How long have they been here?
In another village,
the church bell rings
the church bell rings
and you pass a group of local grandmothers
waiting to attend a special Mass
for a friend
for a friend
with a "Buen Camino!"
You grin back,
and say "Thank you" in English.
and say "Thank you" in English.
You walk...
one foot in front of the other...
walking...
walking...
walking...
After an hour,
one of your toes is hurting.
Each step is becoming painful.
You realize it is a hotspot -
a red tender area
where your shoe or sock is rubbing.
where your shoe or sock is rubbing.
You need to make a decision.
You can continue
and get a full blown blister,
and get a full blown blister,
or you can stop
and take care of this now.
and take care of this now.
There is a horse trough
next to the path,
next to the path,
and you stop.
You sit on the ground
and take off your shoes and socks.
Your feet thank you!
You briskly rub them all over,
then plunge them
into the ice cold water trough.
into the ice cold water trough.
It is shockingly cold,
You soak your feet for 5 minutes,
and then dry them off
with your towel.
with your towel.
You dig in your pack
for the Compeed you bought last week.
It came in many sizes
and you bought one of each.
and you bought one of each.
There is one made just for toes!
Some pilgrims
pierce their blisters with needles,
but you don't want to chance infection,
and besides,
it is not a full-blown blister yet.
it is not a full-blown blister yet.
You carefully cover the hot spot
with Compeed.
with Compeed.
It will remain on your skin until it falls off.
You put your socks and shoes back on
and breathe a sigh.
Oh, that is so much better!
and breathe a sigh.
Oh, that is so much better!
And you begin walking again...
one foot in front of the other...
walking...
walking...
walking...
Three pilgrims pass you.
"Buen Camino!" you wave.
They respond, "Buen Camino!"
You pass a pilgrim on crutches.
She has one foot in a cast
and is limping along.
and is limping along.
"Are you ok?" you ask.
Se nods and grins.
You continue walking...
knowing each pilgrim must walk
their own Camino.
You can not take away her pain.
You can only pray for her
and bless her.
and bless her.
Lunchtime comes and goes.
You pass another bar.
You have a picnic lunch in your pack,
but decide to go inside instead.
You order a big, cold
cerveza con limon.
cerveza con limon.
It is so refreshing and comes
with a small bowl of olives.
with a small bowl of olives.
You look at the menu
and see they offer for lunch...
BOCADILLOS!
and see they offer for lunch...
BOCADILLOS!
You order and eat
another bocadillo.
another bocadillo.
Have you ever eaten
so many sandwiches
in your life?
so many sandwiches
in your life?
It is good and gives you energy.
It's filled with thin slices
of local ham and cheese.
No mayo. No mustard.
No tomato or onion.
Just ham and cheese.
of local ham and cheese.
No mayo. No mustard.
No tomato or onion.
Just ham and cheese.
Other pilgrims at a nearby table ask,
"Where did you start today?
How far will you walk?"
These questions are beginning
to form a song
to form a song
in your head.
You finish your lunch and ask to use the bathroom.
"Dónde está los servicios?"
You are directed
to a tiny closet sized room.
to a tiny closet sized room.
There is a hole in the ground.
It is a squat toilet.
Most places have
what you would call
"normal" toilets,
what you would call
"normal" toilets,
but these squat toilets
do exist along the Way.
do exist along the Way.
The toilet is not necessarily clean.
It was most likely cleaned this morning,
but hitting the hole takes practice,
and some pilgrims
have never seen such a toilet!
have never seen such a toilet!
You pull down your pants
and place your feet on each side,
squatting while trying to keep your clothes
from touching anything.
You wish you had used
the toilet at the albergue
the toilet at the albergue
this morning before you left.
You finish and realize
there is no toilet paper,
there is no toilet paper,
not because it is not offered,
but because previous pilgrims
have stolen it.
have stolen it.
Why do they do that?
Why not just buy their own?
Luckily, you have a roll in your pack
that you bought in St. Jean.
At least there is a toilet here.
You remind yourself again,
"A Pilgrim is Grateful."
You wash your hands,
put your pack on your back,
and walk out the door.
"Buen Camino!" says the bartender.
You again put one foot in front of the other...
walking..
walking..
walking...
Up ahead,
you see the weather is changing.
you see the weather is changing.
You feel a cold wind beginning to blow.
Soon dark clouds roll in.
Then, suddenly it begins to rain!
HARD!
There is no shelter.
You take off your pack,
and dig into it for your Altus rain poncho.
You put it on over your pack,
and your shoes grow heavy
as the thick clay sticks to them,
making each step difficult.
And still, you put one foot in front of the other
and walk....walk... walk...
You have been walking steadily
for 6 hours now
for 6 hours now
and you are beginning to feel tired.
You have passed many pilgrims
and many pilgrims have passed you.
You have stopped for breakfast,
to nurse your feet,
and for lunch.
You are ready for this day of walking
to be finished.
Soon, in the distance,
you see a hill,
you see a hill,
and at the top, a village.
This is where you will sleep tonight,
hopefully.
hopefully.
You wonder if you can make it.
You really don't want
to sleep in the weather tonight,
to sleep in the weather tonight,
so you push yourself to walk on and on,
the village getting closer and closer,
the hill feeling more steep with each step.
As you finally enter the village,
you see the yellow arrows,
and painted signs
directing you to the albergue.
directing you to the albergue.
You have arrived around 3 pm
after walking all day.
after walking all day.
As you approach, you see a sign.
It says
"Completo!"
They are full!
Oh NO!
What will you do?
You plop down on a wall,
drink water,
rub your face,
and think.
Another pilgrim comes up to you
and says,
and says,
"There is another albergue
at the end of the village.
at the end of the village.
Perhaps they'll have a bed for you."
You thank him,
then turn and begin walking
up the next hilly street
up the next hilly street
in the indicated direction,
one heavy foot in front of the other...
You reach the albergue
and find it is open.
Halleluiah!
This albergue is "donativo"
and offers dinner AND breakfast!
What a blessing!
You sign in
and place 10 Euros in the box,
and place 10 Euros in the box,
understanding that this money will buy
tomorrow's breakfast and dinner for tomorrow's pilgrims.
You are shown to your room.
Sometimes you can choose your own bed,
but in this case, one is assigned.
You are lucky today;
the sheets look CLEAN!
There is even a pillow
and a small blanket at the foot,
and a small blanket at the foot,
carefully folded.
These hospitaleros are good ones!
They care!
You look for signs of bedbugs.
Seeing none,
you quickly mist your bed
with mosquito spray.
with mosquito spray.
You wait 5 minutes.
No bugs.
Satisfied, you put your sleeping bag
on the bed
on the bed
to hold your place.
If you had found bugs,
you would have asked for a refund
and moved on.
and moved on.
Digging your clean clothes,
towel, and bath soap
towel, and bath soap
out of your backpack,
you also grab the zip lock bag you carry
for your valuables,
and then you head for the showers.
There is no line
and the showers are not only clean,
and the showers are not only clean,
the water is HOT!
Maybe the first albergue being closed
was a blessing!
You are lucky again!
You undress,
putting your money belt
in the zip lock bag.
in the zip lock bag.
You take this INTO the shower with you.
You never leave this precious bundle anywhere ...
NEVER!
It reminds me of a sign I saw that said,
"In God we Trust; all others pay cash."
It's ok to trust people,
but it also pays to be smart.
If your cash and cards are stolen,
it could mean the end of your journey.
It would be nice to think
that no pilgrim would steal,
that no pilgrim would steal,
but that's just not the case.
There's always that one...
no need in tempting him or her.
You enjoy the 5 minute hot shower,
then you get dressed,
returning your money belt
to your body.
to your body.
It's damp,
not from the shower,
but from your sweaty walk.
It doesn't matter.
It is your lifeline.
You must always
wear it next to your body.
wear it next to your body.
You take your dirty clothes
out to the washing station.
out to the washing station.
There are no machines.
Laundry here is done by hand.
You wash out your clothes
and hang them on the provided racks.
Everyone uses the same racks.
You will gather your clothes
before you sleep tonight
before you sleep tonight
or in the morning before you leave.
You check the "free" box
to see if there's anything you might need.
You find a lightweight long-sleeved shirt
that will be good sun protection.
You leave a can opener
and a sleeping mat that you've decided
you do not need.
Time for a siesta!
This is a perfect time
to catch an hour or two of sleep
to catch an hour or two of sleep
before dinner.
It's also a good time to find a computer
and email family at home
or to visit with other pilgrims.
or to visit with other pilgrims.
After a short rest,
you explore the albergue
and find this one
has a well-stocked kitchen.
has a well-stocked kitchen.
Asking the hospitalero,
you discover there is a small tienda
in the village and it is open.
You take a short walk
and do some shopping,
and do some shopping,
then return to the albergue
to cook your own dinner.
to cook your own dinner.
It will be pasta
with a homemade tomato
and onion sauce.
with a homemade tomato
and onion sauce.
You will save the food
you bought yesterday
you bought yesterday
for tomorrow's lunch.
You have heard there is no place to stop
along tomorrow's etapa.
You begin cooking and soon,
other pilgrims come along.
"I have a bottle of wine!"
"I have a loaf of bread!"
"I have some lettuce and tomatoes"
"I have a can of tuna and some olives!"
"I have apples and bananas!"
Your meager pasta dinner
has become a pilgrim potluck !
The hospitalera arrives and reminds you
this albergue offers dinner!
You forgot!
Oh well, you laugh at each other,
set the table for a feast!
has become a pilgrim potluck !
The hospitalera arrives and reminds you
this albergue offers dinner!
You forgot!
Oh well, you laugh at each other,
set the table for a feast!
You all have a wonderful time
sharing food, wine, and stories.
You head to your bed about 9 pm.
On the way,
you pick up your clothes,
you pick up your clothes,
which are dry.
The lights will go out
automatically at 10 pm,
automatically at 10 pm,
but you are happy to get
an extra hour of rest.
an extra hour of rest.
There is a pilgrim speaking loudly
on her cell phone.
on her cell phone.
She doesn't seem to care that her voice
A brave pilgrim
asks her to please take it outside.
asks her to please take it outside.
She is embarrassed, and complies.
You crawl into bed
in the clothes you will wear tomorrow.
in the clothes you will wear tomorrow.
You are ready to walk.
All you have to do is get up,
stuff your sleeping bag into your pack,
and go.
As your head hits the bed,
a million thoughts replay.
"Hopefully, those grocery sack pilgrims
found a place at the OTHER albergue!"
"Wasn't it a wonderful dinner?"
"Weren't those people from Chile nice?"
"The blisters the fellow
from Oregon had were horrible!
from Oregon had were horrible!
Poor guy!"
"Tomorrow, I will walk an extra 5 kilometers..."
The next thing you know,
you are blinded by the lights
being flicked on!
being flicked on!
It's 7 am!!!
You actually slept in!
You look around,
and most of the beds are empty.
Wow!
Awesome!
Ok... time to get moving...
You are the last person to get up.
Breakfast is still on the table,
and there is more than enough food!
"Take some with you,"
the hospitalera offers!
the hospitalera offers!
And so you do.
You stuff some bread, butter, jam,
and fruit
and fruit
into your backpack.
It will make a nice snack for the trail.
You drink an extra cup of coffee.
Then you put your pack on your back.
You hear the bell tolling in the village.
As you walk out the front door
into the morning air,
into the morning air,
a priest passes on his way to Mass.
"Buen Camino!" he says
as he blesses you in the air.
"Gracias!" you answer.
And again you walk...
putting one foot in front of the other....
and the whole thing starts all over again,
like a loop with no end.
For 6 wonderful weeks,
this is the simplicity of your life.
I hope you will enjoy your version.
"Buen Camino!"
Annie
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this! Thanks! Though I only did the short Porto to SdC route last year I'm really looking forward to doing the full CF next year and immerse myself into a longer version of this simple life:)
ReplyDeleteThank you Mary. Unbelieveably, I just saw these comments today in December of 2021! Blogspot has not notified me of comments. I just happened to be reading this old post. Well, I hope you enjoyed your Camino! Annie
DeleteThank you Annie! This is a great story! I love it!
DeleteThoroughly enjoyed reading this. You made it so real. Thank you 🙂
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. I apologize for not responding. As I said above, Blogspot has not notified me of comments. I just happened across these today.
DeleteI loved reading this! I am really looking forward to our trip in April 2022! Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThank you and Buen Camino!
DeleteYep! That is a day in the life of a Pilgrim! It is beautiful, ugly, green, brown, cold, hot, dry, wet, calm, windy, crowded, secluded, exciting, tedious! But most of all, it gives the greatest sense of freedom I have ever experienced. It is a moving community. It is heaven on Earth!
ReplyDeleteWonderful reading your version of The Way, thank you for sharing, makes it all seem so real as I plan My Way in 2022/23
ReplyDeleteThis is wonderful. Thank you. I am not walking for another year but I am already dreaming and planning and getting fitter.
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